Friday 25 November 2016

Alice Stephenson, Theydon Bois and the Buxton Family

Alice's employers in 1905-1906 (and perhaps earlier and later) were Gerald and Lucy Buxton of Birch Hall, Theydon Bois.

Theydon Bois (pronounced 'boyz', or boy-s) is a village - one of three Theydons -  two miles south of  Epping (Edgar family buffs will know that by coincidence Thomas and Harriet Edgar moved from Stapleford Abbots to Theydon Garnon sometime around 1912).  

Map of Theydon Bois United Kingdom

The parish straddles Epping Forest, part but not all of it being in its boundaries.

Epping Forest Centenary Walk 2 - Sept 2008.jpg
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In 1865 the Great Eastern Railway came to Theydon Bois, and this led to some urban development in a basically rural setting, including the building of working and middle class housing. As a result, the population increased steadily to 1,297 in 1901 and then held stationary for twenty years. The movement to conserve Epping Forest defeated plans to open the area up for development - as we shall see, the family of Alice's employers played a role in this. The main function of this part of the Forest during the period was to provide a healthy and relaxing day out for the often impoverished inhabitants of London's East End. To this end, there were two 'Retreats' in or near the village; these provided refreshment and entertainment for day-trippers. Both were destroyed by enemy activity during WW11. A rather quiet village must have come alive at weekends!

The modern church, a red-brick Gothic Revival erection, was built in 1850, although it contains some items from the original medieval church. The second building, completed in 1844, wasn't  a roaring success, as it was so unsound that it had to be quickly knocked down and replaced by the building which Alice would have known. As we shall see, she was an Anglican and probably attended services there.
 
 Church of St Mary Theydon Bois Essex England - from the west 01.jpg
By Acabashi - Own work, CC BY-SA 4.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=47013694

Frances Mary Buss, the pioneer of female education is buried in the churchyard:

Church of St Mary Theydon Bois Essex England - Frances Mary Buss grave.jpg
By Acabashi - Own work, CC BY-SA 4.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=47030896

There was no Catholic Church, but there was a Baptist chapel, which in 1900 had 20 worshippers and taught 60 Sunday School children. In 1902 national legislation meant that the Anglican-run village school came under control of the Epping School Board. It stands next to St Mary the Virgin, and in 1906 it had about 150 pupils. To accommodate this number a large classroom was added in 1903.

In 1900 main drains were laid and the old school knocked down and built on more secure foundations.Electricity didn't come to the village until 1928  and even today the villagers have voted to keep the 'traditional' feel (and the low Council Tax bills) by eschewing street lighting. 


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And what of the man Alice came here to work for?

Gerald Buxton was born in 1862 to an important family. His parents were Edward North Buxton (1840-1924) and Emily Digby. Edward North's father was also named Edward North, the second Baronet, (1812-1858) and the father of this Edward North was Thomas Fowell Buxton (1786-1845), the first Baronet and a man of immense distinction.

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Thomas Fowell Buxton's mother was a Quaker and Thomas married the sister of the famous Quaker  prison reformer Elizabeth Fry. His money came from brewing -  he eventually became sole owner of a brewery called Truman, Hanbury, Buxton and Co. In 1818 he entered Parliament for a Dorset constituency. Although he was a member of the Church of England, his connections with the Quakers, who were heavily involved in social reform, led him to campaign for improvements in the criminal law and in prison conditions and for the abolition of slavery. The slave trade was  indeed abolished in the British Empire in 1807, but those slaves traded before that date remained in servitude. In 1823 he founded what was to become the Anti-Slavery Society.  In 1833 slavery was abolished in most of the British Empire.


World Anti-Slavery Convention, 1840: Buxton is third back on the extreme left. The speaker is Thomas Clarkson.

In 1840 he was made a Baronet, but his health was already declining and he died five years later. He's on the five pound note that's currently being phased out,the bespectacled man in the group listening to his sister-in-law Elizabeth Fry.


Thomas and Hannah had eight children; four of them died of whooping cough in a five week period, and one died of TB later. One of the survivors was Edward North Buxton, who became the second Baronet on his father's death in 1845. He was also a member of parliament. He named his second son after himself - born in 1840 Edmund North Buxton (the second') became a Liberal MP in 1885. He believed in the public provision of open spaces, especially near cities. He and his  older brother Thomas (the third Baronet) played an important role in turning over parts of Epping and Hainault forests to public use. Thomas went on to govern South Australia between 1885 and 1889.

Gerald - his parents' first son - was born on October 30, 1862.   He seems to have had  a twin Geraldine, their first daughter. On October 30, 1890 Gerald married Lucy Ethel Pease. Lucy was also from a prominent family of Quaker reformers - Lucy herself would be awarded an OBE. Their first child, Blanche Emily Buxton, was born on November 16, 1891, the second, yet another Edward North Buxton on February 7, 1894,  and the third Rebekah Mary on  January 21, 1900. The grave of Gerald and Lucy also contains Joseph Alfred Buxton, 1904-1913, a final child who died young. It seems Gerald  Buxton built the red brick Birch Hall in 1892, although another source says he 'acquired' it. He moved there in 1893. It was demolished at some point between 1955 and 1992 and eventually the current grandiose building with that name was constructed on the same site. All four children would probably have been at Birch Hall during Alice's time as a housemaid there.

Gerald entered Trinity College, Cambridge, and, in spite of an aversion to serious training, he won a running blue. In 1884 he graduated, entering Truman, Hanbury and Buxton's brewery in the autumn of that year, eventually becoming chairman of the firm. Although he didn't follow his ancestors into parliament, he was a senior member of the Liberal Party in the Epping area and served in various local government, justice and administrative bodies from soon after graduating to the time of his death.  He was also Lord of the Manor of Theydon.

How did he act in these positions and what kind of a man was he?

As a magistrate he was 'a kindly generous-minded man, always ready to temper justice with mercy', and it seems that in all his positions and in private life too he 'followed the traditions of his illustrious family in trying at all times to alleviate the lot of his fellow men'. He was, for example, a founder and committed supporter of the Cottage Hospital at Epping. In November 1904 he built cottages to give work to the unemployed of the village.

His compassion  for others was matched by other virtues of character: the keynote to character 'absolute sincerity, and simplicity, in word, thought and deed'. These quotations are from the eulogy at is memorial service, but nothing I have read about him makes me think there is much exaggeration. The eulogist clearly hints that he was rather self-willed and impatient when others put obstacles in the way of his schemes. He was an enthusiastic hunter and shooter, although not a great fisherman. Many of us now dislike such activities, but they hardly mark him out from other 'gentlemen' of the time.

Like other members of his family he had a particular concern for Epping Forest. In 1908 he succeeded his uncle as one of the Verderers of Epping Forest. 'Verderer' is an ancient post: in the modern period its occupants are tasked with defending the rights to use common land and with conservation of the traditional landscape and wildlife.

When did Alice come to work as a housemaid for this family? There is a reference to a 'Miss Stephenson' taking part in an entertainment at Birch Hall in 1901, but Alice was confirmed in Angmering (Sussex) in 1902:


Her parents weren't living there, so my guess is she was working there at the time, maybe in her first position. She was definitely at Birch Hall in November 1905, and probably some time before that.
 
 Map from Angmering, UK to Theydon Bois, UK
71.4 miles

The birth certificate of her first child, Arthur James Stephenson, states that her position in July 1906 states that she was a 'housemaid domestic' at Birch Hall. Arthur was born there in the summer of 1906.

I don't know anything about the domestic life of Birch Hall but I do know a little about its public life in 1905-1906, In June, 1905 the Buxtons hosted a meeting of Epping Liberals, who enjoyed a talk on 'Free Trade' followed by tea in Birch Hall's grounds. August 9 saw the Theydon Bois Horticultural Society's annual Flower Show. Buxton was the Society's president, but perhaps more telling is an associated event - the Donkey Show. He'd started this in 1899 with the idea of securing better treatment for the Epping Forest donkeys. There were displays and prizes for the best-cared animals: as well as the prizes, 37 donkeys won 'premium's of five shillings, and Buxton claimed that this showed the event was proving successful in improving standards. The show continues to this day.

On October 31 the King was driven through Theydon Bois on a tour of the Epping Forest area.  Viscount Horncastle, the chairman of the Epping Forest Committee, the Superintendent and a number of keepers assembled outside Birch Hall. Edward stopped for a moment to exchange a few words. The children of the village school lined up along the side of the road, 'under the shadow of the church and the school', while the 10.50 'up' train was delayed to make sure the Royal party didn't have to wait at the level crossing!

In 1906 the guest speaker claimed that the shows were 'a great occasion for the distinct' and the donkeys were even better cared for: 46 out of 50 received premiums. But sadly Josiah Street, who'd won a prize in 1899, was cautioned for ill-treatment some time during the year.

Gerald Buxton died on March 2,1928 after a lengthy period of illness. He was buried at the church of St Mary the Virgin in Theydon Bois.The choral funeral service was conducted by two vicars, one of whom was his relative Arthur Buxton - both men were great-grandsons of Thomas Fowell Buxton, although Arthur was twenty years younger.

One of Alice's daughters told me that Alice had liked her work as a servant. This kind of life would not appeal to many people today: the hours were long, and much of the work of getting the house back into shape had to be done before their employers had risen. In some households the maids were expected to flatten themselves face to the wall if one of the family entered the room while they were at work. But to Alice the abundant food in the servants' hall was more important: the grandson writing this blog was lucky enough to grow up in a world in which getting enough to meet was never a problem, so it really struck me when someone told me, 'Your grandmother was a proud woman - even before the war, if she had a guest, there'd always be fruit in the bowl'. It's easy to forget that ordinary families could not always be certain of getting enough to eat in the very different Britain before WW11.

The other thing that she liked about her work was the attitude of her employers. From all I've found about Gerald Buxton, I can see why. And, as for Lucy Ethel Buxton, O.B.E. (neé Pease), who died in 1948, and with whom Alice probably had more to do than with Gerald - well, research continues!






























Tuesday 15 November 2016

William Stephenson

William Stephenson was born on May 26,1880 in  BuxtedSussex.  His birth was registered in the third quarter of the year, but I am giving the date from the 1939 National Register.  Like his father, Tom, William - who was named after his grandfather and great-grandfather - became a gardener, and a very successful one. My main source for his career is a profile in the magazine Gardeners' Chronicle for December 20, 1930



William was Tom and Eliza's first child, and the 1881 Census finds him living quietly with his parents in Hurst Wood, Buxted. The family moved around, although never over great distances, and in 1891 they were at Beddingham. 

Map from Buxted, UK to Beddingham, UK
13 miles

William was at school, as were his sisters Blanche and Bessie - even young Alice, aged 3, is listed as a pupil! Only the recently arrived Emily, who probably died young, wasn't studying.

But then Williiam disappears from the record for a time. I can't find him in the 1901 Census. Nor can I track down a record of his marriage, which probably took place in 1910 - the 1911 Census states he and Emily had been married for under a year. And the only thing I can find out about Emily is that she was in Somerset - in Wallow, close to Bath. Nevertheless, we can piece together something of William's early career from the Gardeners' Chronicle article.



William began his career at Worthing where he spent three years working for a surgeon called Dr. Golding Bird Collett and his delightfully named wife Minnie Minniet (neé Harris).

Map from Worthing, UK to Beddingham, UK
21 miles

If 'began his career' means this was his first job rather than his first job with any responsibility my guess would be that William started about 1895. The Bird Collets were living at different addresses in 1891 and 1901 so it's impossible to know where William was working.

William left Sussex for the first time to work for the Earl of Tankerville at his house,  Coombe End, in Kingston-on-Thames

Map from Worthing, UK to Kingston upon Thames, UK
47.4 miles

He was under the direction of  Thomas H. Bolton,  a renowned exhibitor of fruits. He obviously taught William a lot, as we shall see. But the Gardeners' Chronicle statement that William was working for the 'late Earl of Tankerville' raises an intriguing question: the sixth Earl had died in 1899, 31 years earlier, while the seventh remained above ground until July 1931, seven months after the profile of William had been published. So was the Chronicle a little slow in getting out the news of the sixth Earl's death or did it, through the exercise of occult powers, anticipate the fate of the seventh? We may never know, but I for one hope (and believe) that William's employer was the seventh Earl, described by Wikipedia as 'a British peer, cowpuncher, circus clown and revival meeting singer'. Although not strictly relevant to our family history, I can't help but point out that George Bennett ('the Singing Earl') met his future wife when he almost landed in her lap after turning a somersault in a New York drawing room. Anyway, William might not have had much to do with this great English eccentric as his lordship seems to have spent a lot of time in America and at another residence, Chillingham Castle in distant Northumberland. But that might explain William's next move.

Map from Howick Hall Gardens, Howick Estate Office, Alnwick NE66 3LB, United Kingdom to Kingston upon Thames, UK
320 miles

After 'two years of valuable experience', William himself went up to Northumberland to work for Earl Grey at Howick Hall - less than twenty miles from Chilligham.  

Map from Chillingham Castle, Chillingham, Alnwick NE66 5NJ, UK to Howick Hall Gardens, Howick Estate Office, Alnwick NE66 3LB, United Kingdom

His employer was presumably Albert, the fourth Earl Grey (1851-1917). The tea is named after the second Earl. 


Earl and Countess Grey
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However, although the dating of these early jobs is unclear, it's possible he never had any contact with the Earl himself, who was off governing Canada between 1904 and 1911.

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 Howick Hall
By John Nicholson, CC BY-SA 2.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=4531273

William's next employer was Lord Hylton of Ammerdown Park - probably Hylton Joliffe, the third Baron. This was in the Somerset village of Kilmersdon, between Radstock and Frome. 

Map from Howick Hall Gardens, Howick Estate Office, Alnwick NE66 3LB, United Kingdom to Radstock, UK
330 miles

The gardens are now listed grade 2 on the Register of Historic Parks and Gardens of Special Historic Interest in England. It's not known how long William worked here, but it seems likely it was long enough for him to acquire a wife, although one that he could not marry immediately.

William spent another two years as foreman at Bishops Hall, Romford  the residence of the late Lord Lambourne - presumably Amelius Richard Mark Lockwood, Baron Lambourne, who had died in December 1928.

Map from Radstock, UK to Romford, UK
126 miles


Caricature of Lockwood, By Leslie Ward -  Public Domain, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=13803219

Williams' criss-crossing of the country continued: his next post was as 'general foreman' at Brickendonbury Gardens, Hertfordshire, the seat of the late Sir Edward Pearson. 

Map from Brickendonbury, Brickendon Lane, Hertford SG13 8NL, United Kingdom to Romford, UK
29 miles

He was eventually to become head gardener here, and finally the official records catch up with him, as the 1911 Census finds him living in Brickendonbury. He was a gardener in private employment, married - for less than  a year - to Emily E., from Wellow in Somerset. I cannot at the moment find Emily's maiden name or what the middle 'E' stands for and I have not been able to locate  a record of their wedding. According to the 1939 Register, she was born on July 17, 1883. Wellow is close to Ammerdown House...

Map from Radstock, UK to Wellow, UK
5 miles

...so barring a huge coincidence, troth must have been plighted when William was working there and the ceremony performed at the end of his stint in Romford or the start of his one in Brickendonbury.


Their son, Leslie Arthur Stephenson, was born on May 5, 1911 and his birth registered in the Hertford district. On December 28 the couple attended the marriage of William's sister Alice in Knightsbridge. To be honest Emily doesn't look hugely pleased to be there (she's standing in the second row next to William):



Now a question: did William fight in WW1? I can't find any military records, and the article doesn't mention any service. But he should have  Conscription was introduced in March 1916 and extended to married men under 41 in May. William was 34, he played crocket while at Hyde Hall - turning in 'many fine performances' as both batsman and bowler - so he probably wasn't medically exempt. I'm pretty sure gardeners weren't classed as 'essential workers'. At the moment, this is a mystery.

William's profile in the Gardeners' Chronicle gives his current (1930) workplace as the gardens and pleasure grounds of Hyde Hall., where he arrived in 1926. The owner  of Brickendonbury, Geoffrey Pearson, died in 1925 and his widow moved out and rented the house to a private school, which provides an obvious reason for William moving 13 miles down the road.

Map from Brickendonbury, Brickendon Lane, Hertford SG13 8NL, United Kingdom to Sawbridgeworth, UK


Today Hyde Hall is the name of some well-known British Horticultural Society (BHS) gardens near Chelmsford, but these didn't exist until after 1955. I think the place where William worked was in fact Hyde Hall in Sawbridgeworth, Hertfordshire, which had 40 acres of 'maintained ground' when it was sold in 1983.


Hyde Hall in 1818 By John Preston Neale, Public Domain, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=32676896

According to the article, once at Hyde Hall, William maintained high standards, introduced improvements, and won some fame as an exhibitor of hardy fruits. In 1926 he took up his present appointment - which shows his all-round excellence. Won the R.H. S. Silver-gilt Medal  for 18 dishes of apples and many other R. H. S. awards. He won phenomenal success as exhibitor of chrysanthemums at exhibitions promoted by Hertford and Ware Horticultural Societies winning over 100 prizes.

In 1930 Lesley was a member of the Amalgamated Society of Woodworkers (section 3), as a carpenters and joiner, Bishops Stortford and Sawbridgeworth Branch. he'd been in the trade 4 years - so presumably started when his father moved to work at Hyde Hall in 1926 - and was admitted to the union on May 19, 1930.

At some point in the 1930s William changed jobs again. 

Map from Brickendonbury, Brickendon Lane, Hertford SG13 8NL, United Kingdom to Westhide, UK
137 miles

The 1939 National Register records him and Emily living in The Porch Lodge, Westhide, a village close to Hereford, If this is the property that bears that name today, the Porch Lodge was semi-detached. William was still a gardener and Emily E. was a housewife.

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Westhide Church:
By Bob Embleton, CC BY-SA 2.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=9270787

Lesley was living with them, still unmarried and still a joiner.

I've not been able to find anything more about William or Emily.


Lesley died in the summer of 1989 in the Swindon District. 











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Sunday 30 October 2016

Alice and Herbert's Wedding Photo: The Untold Story

The wedding of Alice Stephenson, a parlour maid at 33, Wilton Place, and Herbert Sidney Edgar, a private in the army, took place on December 27th., 1911, St Paul's Knightsbridge. (A different church is given on Find My Past - I have discussed the possible significance of this here.) 

This is the main wedding photograph:


These are the people you can see:

Back row

Edward John Shoesmith, Emily Stephenson, William Stephenson

Front row

Katie Mary Edgar, Bessie Stephenson, Herbert, Alice, Blanche Stephenson, Eliza Stephenson

Blanche and Bessie Stephenson  are Alice's sisters, William's her brother, Emily's William's wife. Eliza (neé Hobden) is Alice's mother. 


Katie Mary is Herbert's sister. She and Sergeant Shoesmith were the witnesses, and I presume the latter was the best man.

But probably the most important thing about the photo is who isn't in it! Herbert had two parents, both alive, and eight siblings. His sister Alice was in India and his brother Frederick was somewhere between California and Australia, but the others were all alive and within striking distance of Knightsbridge. His parents Thomas and Harriet were either in Theydon Garnon or Stanford Rivers, just 25 or 30 miles away:

Map from Theydon Garnon, UK to Knightsbridge, London, UK

Map from Stanford Rivers, UK to Knightsbridge, London, UK

But only his sister Katy Marie is present. Where were all the others? They were obviously boycotting a ceremony they considered less than joyful. It's possible that they disapproved of Alice because she had a child from a previous relationship and was about five months pregnant with her first child with Herbert (my father Thomas).


However, that's speculation. Family tradition suggests a different reason for the absence of the Edgars: they thought Alice wasn't good enough for their Herbert! The English class system is a funny thing, or at least it was in 1911 and remained so in the 1950s when I was growing up.

Because actually Herbert and Alice were well matched socially.

She was a domestic servant like her mother and many other members of her family, which was the fate of huge numbers of working class women in the nineteenth and early twentieth centuries (after WW1 the wages that servants could command led to their disappearance from the homes of everyone but the truly wealthy, a source of many middle class complaints). For those lucky enough to keep out of the dreaded workhouses, domestic service was quite close to the bottom of the hierarchy.

What about Herbert?

He'd been a labourer (almost certainly on a farm), a policeman, and a private in the army. In other words, he'd been bouncing around just above the bottom of the class structure himself. Not a servant though? That's true, but his parents were. In the 1911 Census they're both recorded as domestic servants on a farm at Stanford Rivers close to Ongar in Essex.

So why did they think Alice wasn't good enough? It cannot have been because of her personal qualities: she was to go on to become a highly respected citizen of Windsor, a magistrate, who, I was once informed by one of her colleagues, usually managed to convince the Bench of the correctness of her view of the case in front of them! She left school at 13 but one of her daughters told me people often thought she was well-educated. She was, but not at school: when I was young I used to enjoy browsing her books in the huge Victorian semi in Vansittart Road; they included a Harmondsworth Self-Educator - 'a golden key to success in life' - and a good collection of 1930s titles from the New Left Book Club, which published on contemporary issues like communism, fascism, the Great Depression and so on. Alice built on what she'd learnt at school to give herself the kind of education that many people who started life with much greater opportunities would have envied.

I believe that the Edgars stayed away from the wedding and generally disapproved of Alice for a different reason: whatever they were in December 1911, they'd once been very different. At the height of their wealth - in the middle decades of the nineteenth century - the family had owned a windmill and held the tenancy of a reasonably-sized Suffolk farm. Herbert spent the first five or so years of his life in comfort and with the expectation of a reasonably privileged life ahead of him, but about 1882 something happened: one of Herbert's sons described it as being 'sold down the river by Lloyds bank'. The family's position was ruined and Herbert's father, Thomas, and his wife Harriet began their long social descent - from farmer, to farm manager, to labourer to servant. In 1911, almost seventy years of age, Thomas must have been wondering if he and Harriet would end their days in the dreaded workhouse. Happily something - I don't yet know what - intervened, and the couple spent their final years in a cottage in Theydon Garnon. The first document linking them with that village comes on September 1, 1913 when Thomas signed the register in the local church when Katie Mary had her own wedding to Joseph Love.

So I think that the groom's family looked down on the bride from the great height occupied by Herbert's great-grandfather Johnson Edgar (died 1872)!

I've written about all the family members mentioned already (click on their names for the posts). But there's one other person present, and rather a mysterious one. 


At first I thought I had found the answer to the often-asked question 'How did Alice and Herbert meet'. One of Alice's fellow maids at Mrs. Osborne's establishment at 33, Wilton Place was the 19 year old Edith Annie Shoesmith. So I assumed that Sergeant Edward John Shoesmith was an army friend of Herbert's - if he wasn't the best man, I don't know who was - and that his young sister Annie had taken Alice to meet her brother and she'd fallen for his friend instead. Reasonable enough, and it might even be true she introduced the bride and groom, but not in the way I first thought.

Sgt. Shoesmith was over 20 years older than Herbert, had retired from the army before the wedding and Alice's co-worker was his daughter not his brother.

Edward John Shoesmith was born in 1864 and joined the army in 1882. He seems to have had a satisfactory career, being described as of 'exemplary' character, seeing service in the Boer War (1899-1902) and rising from the ranks through corporal to sergeant. He served almost 25 years before being discharged in December 1906. In 1901 he was living with his family in London and Edoth Annie is listed as his 9 year old daughter. In the 1911 Census he's described as 'Army Pensioner Quartermaster Sergeant Royal Hospital Chelsea'. His wife and four of his children are living with him (Edith was of course at 33, Wilton Place) so this must be a residence not just a hospitalisation. The last record I have of him shows that in 1939 he was retired and living with his wife in Ealing.

In other words, although he might of course have been a friend of Herbert's the only provable link at the moment is between him and Alice (through his daughter)! So it's possible that, apart from Katie Mary, everybody in the picture is from Alice's 'side'. I doubt that is the case: Herbert most probably knew him from the army in some way that isn't as straightforward as I first thought.And I think Herbert must have asked Sgt. Shoesmith to be best man - if Alice had to provide that functionary he was being boycotted not just by his bride's family but by all his fellow soldiers as well! There is nothing in his military records to suggest he had any particular character flaws or problems.

Perhaps the truth about Edward John Shoesmith will emerge in the future.












Monday 24 October 2016

Emily Stephenson

Emily Stephenson, Tom and Eliza's last child, was born in Iford, close to Lewes, in the third quarter of 1890.

Iford Village.jpg

Iford
By MortimerCat - Own work, CC BY-SA 3.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=5205881

She disappears from the record early, and was clearly unknown to Alice Edgar's son Wilfred, who said his mother's family consisted of three sisters (Alice, Bessie and Blanche) and William. I suspect she is the Emily Stephenson whose death was registered in the East Preston District of Sussex in the first quarter of 1900. Tom and Eliza are known to have been living in this District, but I suggested in a previous post that an illegible entry in the 1901 Census refers to their daughter Blanche, who was maid in a school in Goring-on-Sea, which is in East Preston.

According to the 1911 Census, Eliza had lost two children. I think Emily was one of them, and that she had a sister or brother who died in between two censuses.










Sunday 23 October 2016

Blanche Stephenson

Alice Edgar's sister Blanche Stephenson was born on August 14, 1882 in Uckfield, and the 1891 Census shows her  at school in that town.

She's apparently missing from the 1901 Census: however, I suspect she is there, disguised by the difficult handwriting that gives us Blanche Hedenson (Ancestry) and Blanche Henenson (Find My Past). This Blanche is 18 years old, born in Uckfield, and is a maid at a school in Goring on the Sussex coast, just over 30  miles from Uckfield - the name might just as well be 'Stevenson' as the other two transcriptions.

Map from Goring-by-Sea, Worthing, UK to Uckfield, UK

In 1911 Blanche was head housemaid in the establishment of James Ferguson and Martha Cole at 52, Porchester Terrace, in Welling (Bexley) Kent

Map from Goring-by-Sea, Worthing, UK to Bexley, UK
About 60 miles by foot

One thing I've learnt from studying Alice Edgar's family is that domestic servants tended to start off close to home but often moved around the country, probably through taking up positions with families who were friendly with their original employer.

On October 6, 1913 Blanche married Edgar Charles Williams at the mid-Victorian Parish Church of St. Paul, Tiverton (Devon). 

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He was seven years younger than her, a railway parcel-clerk of Station Road, Twyford (Berkshire). Like Blanche, his father was a gardener. There were four witnesses: T. H. (?) Williams (presumably the groom's brother), H. Abery (perhaps a relative of the groom), Eliza Stephenson (Blanche's mother) and Herbert E. Arnold. The last named was the husband of Blanche' sister, Bessie. This shows that Bessie moved to Tiverton not long after her marriage in 1912 (see the previous post). Her presence there was probably the reason the banns were called (September 21) and the marriage celebrated in Tiverton. Perhaps Eliza was living with her daughter and son-in-law - a couple of years later she was to move into the Windsor house of another daughter, Alice. I any case, Blanche's address is given as 2, Wellbrook Place - which I assume was the home of Bessie and Herbert, and is now probably Wellbrook Terrace. Edgar Charles William's address is given as Station Road, Twyford (Berkshire). He was born in the village of Great Bedwin in Wiltshire on September 14, 1890, and his birth was registered in Hungerford in Berkshire, and it seems that he and Blanche moved immediately to the latter county. In September 1914 Bessie had her only child, a son, Harry, whose birth was registered in Wokingham: Twyford is in this Registration District, so I think it highly likely that the Williamses moved back there and looked after Bessie during the period of birth. This also suggests to me that whenever in September this event took place, Herbert Arnold was already in the army so that Bessie needed the support of her sister.

Soon the couple were having children of their own. Blanche Hilary Williams was born in 1918 in Twyford. Charles Kingsley Williams was born in 1921, also in Twyford. They were still there in 1932 when Edgar Charles Williams is listed as a shareholder in the Great Western railway. When they moved, it was to a different part of Berkshire.

In 1939 the couple were living in Bourne Avenue, Windsor - just over a mile from Alice Edgar.

Map from Vansittart Road, Windsor SL4 5BY, UK to Bourne Avenue, Windsor SL4 3JP, UK


Charles was a railway goods clerk and their son Charles Kingsley was a  railway telegraph clerk. According to Wilfred Edgar, Mr. Williams Sr. gradually worked his way up the administrative hierarchy of the railway.


Blanche's death was registered in Windsor in 1948. Edgar Charles's death was registered in North West Surrey in the second quarter of 1969.











Saturday 22 October 2016

Bessie Stephenson

Bessie Stephenson was born on January 4, 1885 in Uckfield. Her parents Tom and Eliza (neé  Hobden) were living in that town, having moved there from Iford, 3.5 miles away.

In 1891 the family -  wrongly recorded as 'Stephson' - were living at 79, Court House Cottages in Uckfield. Tom was a gardener and Eliza was looking after the children: William (10), Blanche (8), Bessie (6) and even Alice (3) were at school. Emily, the latest addition, was 10 months old.

In 1901 Bessie was a housemaid at Uppark House the large establishment of Lieutenant-Colonel (retired) Keith Turnour-Fetherstonhaugh and his wife Caroline in Harting, Sussex. For a portrait of Caroline, see here

http://www.nationaltrustcollections.org.uk/object/138290.2

For more on Uppark see

https://historicengland.org.uk/listing/the-list/list-entry/1000347

Like her mother, Bessie was a domestic servant; although she'd stayed in Sussex, she'd moved almost 60 miles from home:

Map from Uckfield, UK to Uppark House and Garden, South Harting, Petersfield GU31 5QR, United Kingdom

The 1911 Census shows that she was still a servant but in a different county. 

Map from Uppark House and Garden, South Harting, Petersfield GU31 5QR, United Kingdom to Camberley, UK
41 miles by road

She was a housemaid at Durwood, Thibet (sic) Road, Sandhurst, Berkshire. Durwood was the home of Lesley James Probyn Butler, a 34 year old Captain in the Irish Guards and his wife Mary Christal (aged 28). The couple had a son and daughter and only four servants in all, so this was a much smaller establishment than Upppark.

We know from a postcard sent by her sister Alice that her address was Durwood in October 1910 - but Alice wasn't sure if she was actually there which might or might not mean that she was about to start there.

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Captain Butler was to win the DSO in 1916. Mary Christal Butler was the daughter of Sir John Heathcot-Amory,[1] former M P. for Tiverton for Devon. I think it was through her that Bessie met her husband.

View of Tiverton across the River Exe: By en:User:Lew747 - en.wiki, CC BY-SA 3.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=4603942

Herbert Eveleigh Arnold was born close to Bideford in North Devon, and in 1911 was a chauffeur for the Heathcot Amory family and living in Tiverton. Somehow the two employees came together.

They were married in the Westhampnett Registration District in the third quarter of 1912. Bessie's father, Tom, had his death registered in this district in 1907 and her mother Eliza was visiting a friend in Selsey, which is part of the district, in 1911. Banns were called on September 8 in Withleigh, Devon, where the groom was living, with Bessie's address given as Selsey. The wedding probably took place at St. Peter's Parish Church:

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The Voice of Hassocks: This file is made available under the Creative Commons CC0 1.0 Universal Public Domain Dedication.

The couple had a son, Harry E. Arnold, who was born on August 19, 1914, just before the European war broke out. The birth is recorded in the Wokingham District. Edgar Williams, the husband of Bessie's sister Blanche, was from Twyford in this District, so it's probable that Blanche and Edgar were living there and helped look after Bessie, who was giving birth while her husband was away fighting.

Mr. Arnold first joined the Royal Army Service Corps (No. 2/191842) and then transferred to the Tank Corps (75044).  He was killed in action on April 23, 1917. Second-Lieutenant T. O. Norman wrote to Bessie saying that Herbert had done good work with the Corps on April 9 and 23 but was killed instantaneously by a direct hit on the latter day:

By the death of your husband, who was loved by everyone who knew him, I have lost the best man in my crew. I had previously recommended him for decoration for his excellent work. (North Devon Journal, May 17, 1917, p. 6).

Bessie was now living at Chevithorne a village close to Tiverton. This is the inscription on the Chevithorne War Memorial:

H. ARNOLD
75044 Private Herbert Everleigh Arnold of "C" Battery, the Machine Gun Corps (Heavy Branch). Son of Thomas and Mary Jane Arnold of the Bell Inn, Parkham; husband of Bessie Arnold of Chevithorne. Born  in Parkham in 1878. Died 23 April 1917 aged 33.


Harry never saw his father.

Wilfred Edgar tells us that Bessie became the postmistress of Tiverton; this is possible, but it's also possible that she was postmistress of Chevithorne.

In  the second quarter of 1923 Bessie re-married at Tiverton. Her second husband was Josiah Richards of that town.

Josiah was much older than her, having been born in 1865 or 1866 in Penryn (Cornwall).  He appears on the electoral register as early as 1893, so he must have moved to Tiverton by that year. In 1901 he was living there with his wife Edith (five years older than him) and five children. He was a butler. In 1911 the couple, with two children still at home and a sister-in-law moved in, were living in Samford Peverell, just outside Tiverton.

Inland water in front of trees, a house and a church
Wikipedia: By Martin Bodman, <a href="http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/2.0" title="Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 2.0

They'd been there since 1908 at the latest as he appears on the electoral register in that year. Josiah was now (1911) an agent for Prudential Assurance. In 1912 they were living at Bridge Cottage in the same town, and Josiah owned the property and some land freehold. The Cornwall Records Office holds a 'Deed of Partition and Release' signed in June 1912 by Edith, her sister Priscilla Phillips, and others, waiving rights to certain properties in St. Austell. Edith's husband is described as an 'insurance agent'.

There's a 'J. Richards', born in 1866, who was admitted into the Barnstaple branch of the Amalgamated Society of Carpenters, Cabinetmakers & Joiners in 1918 and was still a member in 1921. If this is the same man, he had changed careers again.

Women (over 28) were given the vote in 1918, so on the 1918 register Josiah and Edith appear together at 2, Brickfield Terrace. In 1920 they've been joined as voters by his sons Joseph and Harold and his sister-in-law Priscilla Phillips is also registered. However, Edith is not on the 1921 register, which gives us an approximate date for her death.

So that 1923 marriage was between two people who had already lost their first spouse.

In 1924 Bessie and Josiah were on the electoral register at 2, Brickfield Terrace and the couple were still there in 1927. But by 1928 they'd moved to 209 Chapel Street in Tiverton, remaining there until 1930. By 1931 they had moved to 20, Frances Road, Windsor, perhaps to be close to Bessie's sister Alice, who had moved there in 1916/17. Although Harry was not yet old enough to appear on the electoral register, he almost certainly accompanied his  mother and step-father. He was to lose his second father too.

Josiah died aged 73 in the second quarter of 1938.

In 1939 Bessie and Harry were still living at 20, Frances Road, with two other people whose records are currently closed. Harry was single and working as a paper buyer.

Judging from a family photo, Harry served in the war.  On March 25, 1946 he married Aileen P. M. Yates ('Pat') in Kensington.

Pat Yates was born on November 17, 1915.

On October 21, 1921 young Pat and her family set sail for Demerara in British Guiana Her father is described on the ship's manifest as a missionary, so that was presumably why they were going. It looks like she might even have born there, as her father was appointed to work with Indian immigrants in British Guiana in 1912 (missionaryhistory-whathappenedwhen.htm).

In 1939 Pat was single and living with her father, a Methodist minister, and other family members in Rayleigh, Essex. She was working as a charity secretary. 'Yates' has been crossed out and replaced with 'Arnold', which suggests that changes to the 1939 Register were made as late as 1946. Between 1929 and 1933 the Reverend Yates had been working in the Windsor, Maidenhead and Slough area, so perhaps that was when they met.

Harry's life ended in the Islington district of London in 1965.

Bessie died in 1962 on a visit to her family.





[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lesley_James_Probyn_Butler



Note:  Pat Arnold remarried. In 1973 Aileen P. M. Arnold is recorded as marrying George J. T. Gilks in the St Pancras Registration District. This new name has been added to the 1939 Register!
George James T. Gilks, who was born in 1907, died in Barnet in 1992.
Aileen P. Gilks is on the electoral register between 2002 and 2006, residing at a care home in north London. She'd been there 6 years but it's not clear if that was in 2002 or 2006.
Note: This is a portrait of Pat's father from along article about him in The United Methodist, February 11, 1926, p. 64:



He is the Rev. H. M. Yates, a Wesleyan minister who has laboured as a missionary since 1912 in the difficult field of British Guiana. He is at present resting in a cottage, near Land's End in the hope of restoring his shattered health. Originally he hailed from Wakefield, and With all his kindness and gracious bearing could soon disclose his solid Yorkshire grit, if you scratched him ! 

Mr. Yates is a very kindly personality, good to know, and he has already won the hearts of all my church members in this little village chapel of Drift.  


And there's this intriguing question to the author of a blog post on British Guiana:

Comment by John C. Yates — September 20, 2009 @ 7:51 pm  Reply
  • Would you happen to a descendant of the Reverend Yates from the Methodist Church in Guyana. My grandmother Hiria Marks had a picture of him and told me that she was adopted by him after her parents died. Our last name is Sukhdeo and there are none of us left in Guyana
And this:

For his dedication and work, Peter Ruhomon was honoured by becoming the first holder of the Yates Gold Medal awarded by J. A. Veerasammy to perpetuate the name of Rev. H. M. Yates, founder of the EIYMS.
He was also a founder/ member of the British Guiana Literary Society launched by Cameron in 1930 which included Rev. Dingwall and Rev. Pollard.



 EIYMS = (Wesleyan) East Indian Young Men's Society which Yates founded in 1919 in Georgetown.


Wednesday 19 October 2016

Alice Edgar in 1910

On October 4, 1910, Alice Edgar sent a postcard to her sister Bessie. Analysis of this cards tells us something about her life in service.

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The 1911 Census shows that she was a parlour maid in the house of wealthy Australian widow Elizabeth Jane Osborne, who lived with her unmarried daughter Susan Phillipa Frances Osborne at 33, Wilton Place in Knightsbridge. The text of the postcard tells us that she was already in Mrs. Osborne's employment in October 1910 - and possibly for some time before that.

Alice tells her sister that the household is very upset: 'the Colonel' died suddenly last Friday morning:

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 She obviously assumes Bessie will know who the Colonel is, so she's been with the family long enough to have given her sister this information.

He was  in fact Colonel Claude de Courcey Hamilton, who died of heart failure on September 30, at Broomshouse, near Duns, Berwickshire, aged 49.[1] He had gone there in July because of poor health[2] and Mrs. Osborne and her household must have followed at some point.

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Duns from Duns Law: By Brian Turner, CC BY-SA 2.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=2919335

Colonel Hamilton was born on September 23, 1861 at Corfu. [3] The son of a holder of the Victoria Cross, he was commissioned into the Royal Artillery in 1880. He first saw action in India in 1889 and, after a rather typical imperial career including service in the Boer war and in India, he was placed on half pay in 1907 and 18 months later retired due to ill health. He married Mrs. Osborne's second daughter, Jane ('Jeanie') Kathleen on March 17, 1887 at the Victorian-Gothic church of St. Philip and St. James, Cheltenham, his cousin performing the ceremony.[4]

 By Terry Jacombs, CC BY-SA 2.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=13839272

He was buried with military honours on October 3.[5] Alice refers to the funeral, and she must have seen at least the first stage: Hamilton's remains were taken from Broomhouse to Christ Church Burial-ground in an impressive polished oak casket, carried on a gun carriage with an escort from Leith Fort Royal Artillery.[6] Alice's card says that the family are returning to London the next day.

The report of Colonel Hamilton's probate gives his address as 33, Wilton Place, which suggests he was living with his mother-in-law before going to Broomhouse.  The total of his estate was £91, net 'personalty' (moveable property)  nil: this is a small sum for such a distinguished man - he was made a Companion of the Order of the Bath in 1906 - and my guess is that most of his estate passed directly to his wife.

Jeanie Kathleen de Courcy Hamilton died on November 24, 1944. The Times obituary suggests that her mother - Alice's employer - had moved to 45, Ennismore Gardens, another house  in Knightsbridge - it's estimated current value is £7.5 million.[7] But Mrs Osborne died peacefully at Westport House, Malmesbury - presumably another property - on October 19, 1938.[8] Jeanie was one of the two women named in an Australian newspaper as organising the probate on her estate - the other was her sister Louisa Margaret Atkinson Peake.[9]

The front of Alice's  postcard is a photo of three woman with Edinburgh's Forth  Bridge as background. 

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Alice is seated in the centre. One of Alice's descendants has told me that the two other women in the photograph were fellow servants - clearly they were all on a trip to Edinburgh. According to the same source, one of the women - 'Auntie Maggie' - was to visit the family frequently when they moved to Windsor about six years later. I suspect she is the older lady on the right of the photograph and that she is Mary Thomas, the household's cook, 49 years old in 1911 and born in the Welsh town of Newcastle in Emelyn.

Alice addressed the card to Bessie at 'Durwood, Sandhurst':

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Alice says that she's not sure if Bessie's there. which might suggest she had only recently entered - or had recently left - their employment. According to Wilfred Edgar, her husband was killed in WW1 and she later became the postmistress at Tiverton in Devon. Later still she was to follow Alice to Windsor.

Bessie in 1948, Frances Road, Windsor




[1] The Scotsman November 6, 1910, p. 11.
[2] Berwickshire News and General Advertiser, October 4, 1910, p.3.
[3] Berwickshire News and General Advertiser, October 4, 1910, p.3; https://www.red1st.com/axholme/getperson.php?personID=I1750047243&tree=Axholme
[4] "Marriages." Times [London, England] 22 Mar. 1887: 1. The Times Digital Archive. Web. 16 Oct. 2016.
[5] Yorkshire Post and Leeds Intelligencer, October 4, 1910, p. 4.
[6] Berwickshire News and General Advertiser, October 4, 1910, p.3.
[7] "Deaths." Times [London, England] 1 Dec. 1944: 1. The Times Digital Archive. Web. 16 Oct. 2016.
[8] "Deaths." Times [London, England] 20 Oct. 1938: 1. The Times Digital Archive. Web. 16 Oct. 2016.
[9]https://news.google.com/newspapers?nid=1301&dat=19390819&id=83JVAAAAIBAJ&sjid=jZUDAAAAIBAJ&pg=2524,3274105&hl=en